You may think online dating is only for people in their 20s and 30s; in fact, the 50s and over are the fastest growing group on Internet dating websites, according to Joe Tracy (publisher of Online Dating Magazine). Still not convinced? According to laterlife.com over 50s now account for more than 20 per cent of all members on dating sites in the UK.
Mature dating online is a pro-active way to meet suitable people, especially for those who lead busy lives. Internet dating allows you to take control of your love life, enabling you to easily connect with like-minded individuals.
It’s natural to have some reservations about giving it a go yourself but you shouldn’t let these fears put you off. The most important thing to remember before your start is to choose a reputable site, with good security and privacy for members. The very best sites require a full, detailed profile and include a matching service – this will enable you to easily and quickly refine your search. Almost all sites will allow you to browse for free or offer a free trial, it’s highly recommended that you utilise this to have a look at the type of people on the site and see if it’s right for you.
Once you have selected a site there are several things to consider; here are some simple, straightforward pieces of dating advice that will set you on the path to love.
Create an approachable profile
• Your profile is the most important part of the entire process, it needs to accurately reflect your character
• Appear open and approachable
• Avoid lying – aside from the fact that lies tend to catch up with you at a later date, this is your big chance to attract a partner who likes you for who you really are
• Don't be afraid to include any exciting things you’ve done and interesting places you've been, alongside hobbies and interests
An up-to-date picture is essential
• A picture really is worth a thousand words, without one you’re much less likely to attract a partner
• It goes without saying that you should use an attractive photo, but it also needs to be a recent one
Make a list and be flexible
• Outline the characteristics you’re looking for in a potential partner
• Don't be too fussy, keeping an open mind can lead to welcome surprises
• Similarly, give people a chance – if, after a first date, you're not entirely convinced you want to see someone again, don't immediately rule them out
• Sometimes we can be too quick to judge people
Plan ahead
• Make yourself feel desirable by exercising and cutting back on more indulgent foods
• Getting into shape will give you confidence on any future dates
• It also might be worth freshening up the old wardrobe – new clothes really can make the difference if you're feeling a little nervous
Guard your privacy
• It should go without saying, but don't give away any personal details until you feel happy that it's safe
• It's always worth getting to know someone over the telephone or Skype before you meet them in person
Take a chance
• Be spontaneous – if it's sunny outside see if one of your matches wants to go for a walk (you could even take your dog)
• Alternatively get a glass of wine or a coffee
• It's always better to keep things simple and fairly casual on a first date
• A short date is better than a long one – always leave wanting more
Most importantly, however, go out and enjoy yourself! Meeting new people should be a pleasurable experience, approach dating with a good sense of humour and an adventurous spirit.
